Freddie Prinze Jr. (a.k.a The Iron Bull) sitting in The Skyhold Throne!!
the new D&D Fifth Edition is a ruleset I would’ve loved six years ago. if this had been 4th edition, Pathfinder & the OSR wouldn’t be a thing. way too late to get me on that train now, but I make a habit of getting the core rules of the current D&D edition, because I’m a collector and you never…
My new novel, BRAVO, came out this past Tuesday and is now available everywhere books are sold, except, apparently, via Amazon, because I am a Hachette author, and Amazon and Hachette are at war.
Be that as it may, the book is out and it is available in both hardcover and various electronic…
…the problem is when we choose to make a harasser’s growth and change more important than the safety and security of his victims and potential victims.
When you’ve wronged someone and they throw you out of their life, you don’t get to force your way back in to prove that you’ve changed. You don’t get to violate their boundaries because you want to apologize. If the wronged party chooses to forgive and to allow you back into their lives, that’s one thing. If they choose not to, then you need to accept that loss as a consequence of your actions.
Sergeant Phelps worked for General Eisenhower. Four decades after Eisenhower had defeated the Axis powers, Phelps recalled an extraordinary event. One day, the general told her, “I’m giving you an order to ferret those lesbians out. We’re going to get rid of them.”
“I looked at him and then I looked at his secretary who was standing next to me, and I said, ‘Well, sir, if the general pleases, sir, I’ll be happy to do this investigation for you. But you have to know that the first name on the list will be mine.’ “
“And he was kind of taken aback a bit. And then this women standing next to me said, ‘Sir, if the General pleases, you must be aware that Sergeant Phelp’s name may be second, but mine will be first.”
“Then I looked at him, and said, ‘Sir, you’re right. They’re lesbians in the WAC battalion. And if the general is prepared to replace all the file clerks, all the section commanders, all the drivers-every woman in the WAC detachment-and there were about nine hundred and eighty something of us-then I’ll be happy to make that list. But I think the general should be aware that among those women are the most highly decorated women in the war. There have been no cases of illegal pregnancy. There have been no cases of AWOL. There have been no cases of misconduct. And as a matter of fact, every six months since we’ve been here, the general has awarded us a commendation for meritorious conduct.”
“And he said, ‘Forget the order.’”
The Gay Metropolis, page 47, Charles Kaiser (via bibliothekara)
Phelps tells this story herself in the excellent 1984 documentary Before Stonewall, which you can watch in its entirety on YouTube (she’s at 19:30, but really, watch the whole thing): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kX7AxQd82H8
This makes me laugh every time I see it.
No one is more excited about Batgirl’s new costume than Kara.
This is seriously the best thing to come of the costume change. I cannot express enough how happy this makes me.
Saga themed motivational poster.